What are we allowed to do / not do for decor for our event?
We can certainly discuss custom things if you have an idea / vision and I can let you know if it's feasible or not.
As for decor restrictions, we often avoid glitter, confetti, rice, and fake flower petals outdoors. The idea in mind is the amount of clean up any given decor item might take to clean up + if it creates litter to our outdoor grounds. As for flame, we do not allow real flame within the estate, just LED candles. In the ballroom, we allow real flame so long as it is enclosed in glass.